Relationship OCD, or ROCD, is a form of Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder where a person experiences constant doubts, fears, and anxiety about their romantic relationship. Even when things are going well, someone with ROCD might feel stuck in a spiral of “What ifs?”—questioning whether they really love their partner, whether they’re with the “right” person, or whether they’re somehow making a huge mistake.
These intrusive thoughts can feel incredibly real and distressing, often leading to compulsive behaviors meant to gain clarity or reassurance—but the relief doesn’t last for long.
These are the kinds of thoughts that tend to show up and cause anxiety:
Even when the relationship is healthy and strong, these thoughts can create constant doubt and emotional discomfort.
These are the things people with ROCD might do to try to feel more certain or “figure it all out”:
Carolina Anxiety and OCD | Julia Markovich, LCSW
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